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Hey there borrow Friends
Tomorrow is my 26th Birthday and It's looking to be just another one of those days for me and Honestly I'm not wanting it to be that way. I would like to be able to go out and Do Something with my Partners for the Day and Have fun on my Birthday and not just spend the Day sitting around the Apartment. I would like to be able to go get a cake and some Candles and Celebrate another year of living on this Earth. Thank you so much for your Consideration and Birthday Wishes!

Mutual tearing with Yan Wang, the bullying brother is extremely selfish is the root cause, clinging to Guo will be unlucky, Xi Guoda internal strife is in the ascendant

The mutual tearing between Guo Wang and Yan Wang has been made public since July 14. On the sickbed, Guo Wengui instructed the Ants to help their comrades-in-arms divide into two groups and punish the thieves Luther and Yan Limeng according to law. Even close comrades-in-arms and heroic scientists cannot escape the fate of Guo Wengui's verbal criticism and physical attacks. Alas, it is chilling. It is foreseeable that such a good show of fighting in the nest will be staged again and again in the territory of Xiguo in the future. Sticky Guo will be unlucky. Comrades, you can eat melons and watch, but don’t get stuck in the mud, otherwise it will be difficult to protect yourself. In the end, it will end up with no pain from grandpa and no love from grandma. Wouldn’t it be miserable.
Luther and Wang Dinggang, who started out as monitoring equipment in Guangzhou, slipped to the United States by accident and hang out with Guo Wengui. As far as Guo Wengui is concerned, Wang Dinggang's commentary on Luther, Luther's interview, and his response to the Whistleblower Movement from the sidelines have indeed made great contributions. In this regard, Guo Laojue did not deny it, and was full of praise, "This Luther looks like a Buddha", so he was willing to give 300,000 shares to GTV, and threatened to give 1.47 million shares to Connecticut. The villa is for Luther, his wife Xiao Cai, and their children. For this, Luther is grateful and weeps, "Mr. Wengui is so great." It is the way to be a human being to reciprocate the peaches and rewards, and to reciprocate courtesy. But Guo Wengui did not treat Luther equally from the beginning to the end, just like he treated Qu Long, Li You, Guo Baosheng, Sara, etc., who were just pawns and tools in Guo Wengui's mind. It is by spreading rumors and gossips through the self-media, and even standing up for Trump to create a hard door for the Biden family. Luther, the cannon fodder, has done so well that he has been followed and investigated by the FBI, while Guo Wengui has the tendency to kill the donkey. For example, assigning Brother Changdao and Masked Mafa to hold a grand banquet, questioning the relationship between Luther and Sara, and even threatening that Luther does not have 100% trust in the Whistleblower Movement. Being like this, how can you blame Luther for protecting himself and fighting back? !
Yan Limeng was originally a powerful weapon for Guo Wengui to attract fans, and also a great weight for the landing of political asylum. For this reason, Guo Wengui, Bannon, Luther, etc. tried their best to get Yan Hamster from Hong Kong to the United States. From April 29 last year, when he landed in the United States until he was publicly torn apart, Yan Limeng has always been a puppet who was pulled by strings, accompanying Guo Wengui's will in the United States. However, Yan Limeng, who knows nothing about viruses, said in the Fox interview and wrote three papers, full of mistakes and omissions, and was refuted by the American medical community speechless. So far, Yan Limeng's function has been drained. As the saying goes, the credit is not there, the hard work is full, not to mention, in order to fabricate lies, Yan Limeng even made up lies about her mother being arrested and imprisoned by the police inside the wall, and even turned against each other. After the FBI determined that Yan Limeng was a pseudo-scientist, the Jianzhi chicken series of scams were under siege from all sides. Guo Wengui felt that the situation was not good, so he resolutely let go of the grind and killed the donkey. And Yan Limeng has a thorough understanding of Guo Wengui's nature, "Mr. Guo Wengui is against Zengyuan, controlling everyone's speech, and sinking the ship, but he has a way out and let everyone sink." It seems that Yan Limeng has long been clear, has plans long ago, sharp words, strict logic, and fierce attack momentum, which is a step up from Sara. No wonder, brother bully said, this woman is not simple.
As the saying goes, it's easy to get together and get away. What's more, Luther and Yan Limeng have been with me for 2 or 3 years after all. But Guo Wengui is Guo Wengui. After pretending to be sick and hospitalized, a live broadcast was released on July 14th local time, and the Jedi fought back, swearing at Luther and Yan Limeng, swearing and attacking without marginalization, and adding a period of madness and babbling, which was irrelevant and groundless . From the middle point of view, Guo Wengui is a black rascal and a social hooligan, and he is an afterthought. What is "Dr. Wengui, Yan is a snake spirit, and Luther is a toad spirit, which will surely harm Wengui." It is true that Luther, Yan Limeng, etc. resolutely broke up with Guo Wengui. Sometimes the situation forced it, and the FBI follow-up investigation, the chicken series, and the rule of law fund were about to be wiped out. source of civil unrest. Today, the ant gangsters punish thieves according to the law and are staged again. The Buddha was killed by the toad, and the heroic scientist was killed by the snake. Comrades, with Guo Wengui, sooner or later you will end up as a fake and spy. Today's Luther and Yan Limeng may be tomorrow's you.
Wang Wengeng also came to help, supporting Luther and Yan Limeng. This former front-line officer who punished thieves according to the law has changed from "supporting Guo with a gun" to "holding a gun (lifting the lid)", and stated that he is willing to testify in the US judiciary Expose Guo Wengui. Sellin claimed that Yan Limeng was being defended with arms. Luther and Yan Limeng, the in-depth participants of the Rule of Law Fund, the Rule of Law Society, the Farm Series, and the G Series, are quite expected. Guo Wengui is not benevolent, and the king of Hades will be unrighteous. Now that the face has been torn and there is no turning back, Guo's deceitful situation is bound to be naked online, and Guo Wengui's end is near. It will be unlucky to hit Guo, but only after being vigilant can we stop losses in time and return with a big victory. All comrades-in-arms and investors, seize the opportunity of Guo and Yan Wang's fight in the nest, and pursue Guo Wengui fiercely, and don't miss it.

To the person who’s soul pulls against mine,
Should you ever feel lonely, don’t forget that I’m always with you, in a way. Should you ever feel hopeless, remember that our paths will collide again one of these days; in a way that is more real than it ever has been.
Should you ever wonder what I’m up to, I hope you find peace in knowing that I spend my days working on myself and trying to be better. Should you ever think I’ve given up, just know I’m still waiting for the moment.
Should you ever want to let go and give up, remember that I love you for exactly who you are. Should you ever want me, don’t forget that I’ll be right here, always.
Things are complicated right now; things always seem to be. I feel like I’m falling apart again, but I don’t want you to worry about that. I’m not waiting for you to pull me out of it this time. This time, I’ll do it because I understand that it’s the only choice I have left. But, if you’d like to be there to watch me do it, I’d really like that.
But if not, that’s okay, too. I’ve learned not to put too much weight into things like this; things I can’t control or understand.
I can only hope you’re well.

For the sake of privacy I will be changing minor identifiable details (people involved frequent Reddit)
My partner(25nb he/they) and I (24f) have been in a relationship for a little less than a year (we hit a year in September) after we first split the previous year. We were in a serious relationship for 3 years and we originally split up because they believed I was too controlling and they wanted to be friends with whoever they wanted. I admit that I did not approve of their friends (group of 4) because I had only met them twice briefly during the 3 years we dated, and they were very different from us. They were the type of people who partied a lot in college and were always drinking/on drugs. My partner would become a completely different person from the person I knew when they were around their friends and my partner never wanted to bring me because “they have known them since they were kids and didn’t want me to feel left out because they have inside jokes.” I was hurt by this and would get a pit in my stomach every time my partner was with them. During our split all my friends came through for me for the most part except for my supposed best friend. She (now 22) had been private messaging my partner and when my partner expressed that they were upset over my behavior, she suggested that we split up. My partner ultimately agreed after going back and forth, and they dumped me the following week. My best friend kept all of this from me and acted supportive for a couple of days until she informed me that my partner had invited her to the beach with a couple of mutual friends. I begged her to not go as it had been 2 days since the split and I needed her support since I was the one who was dumped. She went anyways and didn’t answer any of my calls so in an angry teary rage, 22 year old me, blocked her number and instagram. This wasn’t the first time she had done something like this as at the beginning of our relationship she also kissed my partner “as a joke” and would constantly try to make me the third wheel. She would be mad anytime I touched him or he touched me and would wedge herself between us. I had finally snapped and if she was truly sorry she would’ve never gotten involved in the first place. She then proceeded to block me on everything else, from Snapchat to Gmail and went as far as to block me on MINECRAFT. She showed no remorse and I was heartbroken to have lost both my best friend and my partner within the same week. My partner and I eventually went from FWB to getting back together officially after a year. As far as I knew, my partner had not seen my ex best friend in almost a year and a half and when we first got back together, they promised not to see this person again. They have also since, parted ways with the friend group and we were on good terms. Fast forward to this year and I am over what this person did to me and my significant other. I think it’s in the past and while I have personally gotten over all of it, I have no intentions of pursuing a friendship with them We have many mutuals, so on occasion we are invited to the same gatherings. The times we have been invited to these gatherings and I’m able to make it, I haven’t seen her but I’m told she was invited. I just assume she still holds resentment but don’t care enough to look into it. My partner and I have different schedules, so we don’t see each other for more than a week for the time being. Yesterday I gave them a call after coming home from work, and they casually mention they are meeting up with 2 of our friends for a day trip out of state today. I’m thrown for a loop since my partner has a good memory and almost always lets me know what they are doing as soon as plans are made. It seemed strange so I made a small fuss over it and almost asked if I could come but I didn’t want to intrude on these plans since my partner likes the time alone with friends ands doesn’t really get out much. I had the day off so it seemed strange my partner didn’t ask me to come since we were both off and we usually spend those days together. The day of the trip arrives and I go about my day and occasionally check my partner’s location to see what they are up to so I can send short videos or thoughts that cross my mind. At first they are responsive. I decide to run errands and do a couple of more things including a quick therapy session. After my session I decide to scroll through Instagram and I notice my partner has posted an Instagram story. I open it and see both the friend they mentioned, but a blur of a 3rd person before the story ends. I replay it and hold down before it fully blurs and I see none other than my ex best friend. I don’t bother thinking and swipe up to reply “wow.” The more I sat and thought, the more I grew angry. They lied to me. I send them 2 more texts asking why they broke my trust and that they should come see me if they want any chance of repairing our relationship. I admit I could’ve worded it better but I was hurt and could not think straight. I didn’t hear back until hours later when my partner arrived home and was alone. I expressed my thoughts and they called me manipulative and selfish saying that they spend all their time with me and sees no problem in hanging out with other people. I tearfully explain that I’m more hurt about the lying, lack of communication, and the boundaries I set being broken. They reply back that they knew I would react this way and that it would’ve resulted in the same fight. I disagree and say that I should’ve been invited by them because I don’t trust her and while I am over what she did, I am not comfortable with my partner befriending someone who’s friendship broke us apart the first time. They then say they never get to go out with their friends and has missed out on previous outings because my bff was going to be there. I ask why they hadn’t communicated this to me and they told me that since they said no, it didn’t feel important. I feel that they resent me for it. I tell my partner that they can go out with friends but they are mutual friends and i feel as though this day trip could’ve easily involved me since another mutual had brought their girlfriend who was not part of the group. My partner then says the plans were made by our mutuals and when they found out ex best friend would be there, they knew I would tell them not to go so my partner chose to hide the people who were attending. We argue back and forth and I claim that I’m over this person and my partner says I’m not because of how I reacted and that our mutuals don’t know that so that’s why I wasn’t invited in the first place. I should be taking it up with the mutuals instead of taking it out on them. I communicate That I did last year during an event BFF and I were both invited to but bff chose to no longer attend. My partner says nothing and tells me they are tired and will see me tomorrow. I want to make things right and don’t want to make them feel as though I’m controlling but I also don’t feel comfortable with this friendship they want to pursue. I want to give them space to spend time with friends but they are my friends too and I see them less often than my partner. If it’s a large group outing I would like to be included as well. I would like for us to be able to compromise. Does anyone have advice on how to deal with this issue?

TW: mentions suicide
I feel like enough time has passed to be able to talk about this. There is a dark, evil attachment to my mom's remains. This evil entity cannot be destroyed, only sealed away. Some may already know what I am referring to, for those that do not, the entity was a dybuk. For those unfamiliar with dybuks, they originate from Jewish folklore, it is an entity that was never human, and the longer it is allowed to feed, the stronger it can get, to the point where it can kill.
Some background information. My mom passed away from pancreatic cancer of the liver in early 2018, this was her 5th cancer. Due to where she passed and where we lived it was cheaper to have her cremated. At the time I was in the Army so my sister held on to the remains. After I got out in 2020, I got a place to live. In 2021 my sister and her husband decided to move to Florida to live near his parents, due to how they packed they were unable to take the remains with them and so I had taken for the time being since I just lived down the road. At the time I suspected nothing about the remains.
At this time I had been starting my path as a practicing witch. Strengthening my natural abilities, since I could sense spirits but not see them, slowly with practice I was able see after images of spirits. In early 2022 I met someone online and started to form a relationship with, in April of that year I had taken a trip to see how living with them would be. It's when I got back things went south fast. The night I returned, I was woken up in the middle of the night and above me was this black mass in the shape of a sphere dripping darkness. I was terrified, this thing radiated evil. I felt like it wanted to kill me but it couldn't. The next day I consulted my friend who is an experienced witch and she searched for it, the entity tried to hide from her and when she found it, it attacked her. My friend was able to confirm that it was a dybuk. She found that the dybuk was attached to my mom's ashes and it had been attached to her for a long time.
Looking back it explained so much. And going through my memories, the townhouse that we moved into when we moved to California felt evil. It where my mom got her first cancer and where I first started having suicidal thoughts. I remember seeing this darkness at the top of the stairs by my room and by my mom's room. I believe since my mom had more negativity around her the dybuk attached itself to her, since she was raising two kids, my dad left her for another woman, he also ruined her credit. And ever since that townhouse we had been plagued with misfortune and mishaps, some that nearly killed my mom.
After my friend discovered what it was, she gave me a charm for protection a temporary one until the thing was delt with, as it was trying to attach itself to me. We planned for a day to seal it, I believe it was on a new moon. Due to my friend being a lot more experienced, her and her partner who is also a witch took the reins. I can't go into much detail on what was done but I can say is that my friend lured it out and her partner sealed it away, creating a dybuk box. My friend reassured me that it was sealed and cannot hurt me anymore. The heaviness that was in my apartment was gone. Shortly after the sealing ritual my sister asked for the ashes back. While I wanted to bury the box so my family could finally be rid of the demon, but because the ashes were sealed away in the box I had to send it to her. I did warn my sister not to open the box as the dybuk wants to attached itself to our family. I don't know what she did with the box, if she unsealed it to retrieve the ashes or not she hadn't told me. Since then I also went no contact with my sister due to other past issues. So there really isn't a definitive ending to this encounter.
I do apologize that my story telling isn't the best, I don't have the best memory and of how events played out things went really quickly. Things played out over the course of a month, but most of the time it was waiting for my friend's preparations to be complete. Also there are details I am not allowed to share, like how the dybuk was sealed away.

So I’m not a tech person but I do know how to set up internet and computers and connect devices and fix common issues and this one is going above my pay grade. (Please don’t roast me if I sound incompetent at what I’m trying to describe, I’m aware that I have no idea what I’m talking about)
I live in an apartment complex with a managed Wi-Fi system where Xfinity is the ISP. It’s a 297 unit building with each unit having their own router (built / mounted into the wall).
The 2.5/5hz bands are linked together and I have several devices (a tv, roomba, Sonos speakers) that won’t connect to the combined frequencies. Sonos during troubleshooting directly stated the problem was this and that the solution was to contact the ISP and change my settings.
(Let me note, I recall doing something in the past where I’d punch in my IP into a browser and it took me to those settings, I can’t seem to do that now.)
Well, living in a building with a managed network, Xfinity doesn’t offer me the ability to switch this, it doesn’t even have that option in app like it would for a non managed building.
Xfinity states that I have to go to my building manager and they can fix it on their end, but Xfinity says it’s out of their hands. I went to my building manager over a month ago and no luck. He has no idea what I’m talking about and thinks I’m asking for higher internet speeds.
I’m sort of at a loss at this point. I can’t even order an Xfinity tech out, they won’t process my request.
Is there any workaround for this? Any way that I can access the settings on my own and create dual frequencies?
My Roomba is dying to listen to music on my Sonos while it vacuums and I can’t even give it that reprieve. Please help??
Thanks in advance!

hi everyone so a couple of months ago, i spotted a bed bug on my couch. which shocked me because I didn’t even suspect of having them. that same night i saw one on my pillow. my boyfriend and i searched both our bed and couch and found absolutely nothing. he was getting bit, but i wasn’t because i don’t react to their bites anymore. i’m thinking our next door neighbors gave them to us, or the apartment had them when we moved in last summer. when we first found the two we saw, we soaked our entire bedroom in 91% rubbing alcohol and haven’t seen any since, until tonight. i just found another one while i was trying to sleep and idk what to do. i can’t bug bomb my house because i have a cat, and i’m not able to afford an exterminator right now. i’m so stressed because i’ve basically dealt with bed bugs for the last couple years up until 2021. i’m currently 23 weeks pregnant and want them gone before i’m due. to my knowledge, i don’t have an infestation since i’ve only seen 4 of them in the span of a few months. i just want to find where they’re coming from, and treat them properly. please help 🥲

Alright. I’ve tried keto before. It was good at first but it went down hill and caused extreme binge eating.
I’m assuming this was due to

1. Too many sweeteners/keto ice cream/protein bars

2.not eating fiber
3.eating wayyy too much cheese/nuts/calorie dense foods
Other possible factors 4.electrolytes? 5.Water?
This time I have a plan. Obviously it’s not exact but here it goes
Morning: -Cup spinach
-100g mushrooms
Some kind of protein/fat to cook with the veggies such as :cheese,salmon patty,eggs
-1-2 tablespoon chia seeds with cup of cashew milk with 1-3 tsp sugar free sweetener
Lunch: nothing crazy. Just turkey pepperoni or something to snack on. Maybe 2 if I get hungry. Has lots of sodium
Dinner: I meal prepped a side of veggies and ground beef. If I am still hungry, I will have another one or another pack of pepperoni. But I will not have an extra one of these if I had that other pack of pepperoni from earlier
After dinner I will have another chia seed drink
This gives me 1200-1800 calories depending. Net carbs for sure under 50 but I’m keeping them under 25 just to be safe.
I will have 1-2 energy drinks as needed, but hopefully will change to coffee
My sodium is enough. Potassium is low so I will supplement potassium and magnesium.
Will try to drink lots of water
The differences I see from doing it this way than previously is:
the only sweeteners I am having are the energy drinks and a few teaspoons for my chia drink. No keto ice cream or keto chocolate or binge eating quest bars. Maybe gum here and there
I am eating more meat than cheese/nuts and other calorie dense foods. I am kind of over this “stuff yourself with fat” bullshit because very fat dense foods do not make me full. Pepperoni will. Pepperoni has fat but it has more protein than fat. I can’t eat cheese and nuts all day.
I am eating more fiber. Thanks to chia seeds. I am hoping this helps
I forgot how I was doing on water and electrolytes last time I did keto but I don’t think it will be an issue since sodium Is good and I just have to supplement the other two.
Yes I am eating processed foods but I’m a busy person and i like quick and filling snacks.
What I remember from when I failed was that I was BINGE EATING cheese and also having Turkey with it. Most of the fiber I got were from protein bars I think. And I would eat keto ice cream and protein bars everyday. At first I did well but idk why eventually I broke.I was always bloated and felt disgusting (also because of sugar alcohols) and was having like 30 pieces of gum. I really hated my life
I just want tips. I am trying to maintain this as much as I can. I am on an adhd medication to help my appetite but I’m hoping I won’t need it as much. I want to do keto because I wanna maintain my weight more easily, I want more energy, be less bloated, more mental clarity and more productive and I’m addicted to sugar. When do cravings go away? When do I get energy and mental clarity ? Any advice and answers is appreciated.

Hello, I just finished Katana zero for the 2nd time after a couple years. When I played there was no story, I was never taken to the apartment complex never encountered any dreams or the little girl. Do you know why this happened? Perhaps it is becuase I pirated it on steam unlocked. [ I bought the game but my steam got hacked a year back :(( ]
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When saving the scientist he disapears and apparently goes back to sleep rather than dying. Sorry if this is an obvious answer I just missed. Thank you for any responses.

This is the Longest One YET! Feel free to take a break, or wait for me to post the Summary/Recap, if I find the time/energy to create and post it.
Baablu received less votes than the Replace option, and will be replaced by a random player! Kier, Dev, Yello, and Boosfer are about to fight for the last time! They are each given the items you voted them to have! Kier has 1 Bow, 64 Harming Arrows, Full Iron, and 9 Totems. Dev has 64 Obsidian, 64 Crystals, Full Blast 4 Iron, and 8 Totems. Boosfer has Diamond Sword, Diamond Axe, Shield, Full Diamond, and 4 Totems. Yello, who replaced Baablu, has a Knockback 10 Stick and Full Prot 4 Netherite. With each player in a corner, they all run for control of the center!
Yello, knowing there are 2 twists, doesn't engage in the rush for center control and observes his surroundings patiently. Boosfer rushes towards Kier with his shield held up. Unable to use his bow, Kier keeps a safe distance. Dev places and detonates a crystal near Kier, catching him off guard. However, void is revealed underneath the crater. World Eater is revealed to be one of the twists.
Kier backs away to naturally regenerate his lost health, but notices his movement is messed up. He has ice mechanics. After healing, he fires towards Dev and manages to hit a crystal before Dev was a safe distance from it. Dev tanks lots of damage, but suddenly has the same ice effect. The 2nd twist is Taking Damage gives you Icy Movement for a few seconds.
The crystal reveals a lot more void, and signals everyone to rush for height. Yello, who sat back and watched the chaos, claims height before anyone else. Using his knowledge of Crystal Mechanics, Dev uses his low ground to fight Yello, but gets launched by the stick and slides towards the hole. With quick reflexes, he uses obsidian to stop himself.
Kier knows Yello and his Netherite won't reduce Harming Arrow damage, and begins to use Bow Spam to scare Yello away. Boosfer crits Kier before jumping up on the hill and Dev makes it up safely. The ground below Kier vanishes and he shoots one last arrow up before Void Damage kills him.
Dev, who didn't get to recover from his Misplaced Crystal, pops a totem from Kier's Last Arrow. Taking advantage of Dev's health and ice effect, Boosfer begins to crit him out and leaves him with 3 Totems before Dev gets an upper hand and pops one of his totems.
They both look over at Yello, who didn't get any totems, and back at each other. Instantly recognizing what they're thinking, Yello stands defensively at the highest point and grips his stick tightly.
Boosfer goes around the Right Side of the hill and pulls up his shield. Yello, striking his Boosfer's shield as fast as he can, forgets to watch his back and takes a heavy hit from one of Dev's crystals. The Knockback from it lands Yello right behind Boosfer, and he doesn't hesitate to launch Boosfer right to the edge of the now floating hill. The blocks below Boosfer's feet collapse seconds after he jumps back up to the higher area.
Knowing Dev has a better chance in a 1v1, Boosfer pulls out his sword and begins to combo Dev. Yello retreats to let the fight ensue and is shocked to watch Boosfer lose his last 3 totems before running away. With only a few blocks left to stand on, Yello flails his stick around senselessly.
As Boosfer and Yello swing at each other landing no hits, Dev realizes he has blocks. He makes it up 4 before Yello notices and jumps towards him. Swinging for Dev's toes, Yello knocks Dev towards the void, but Dev saves himself, using his last obsidian to do so.
Boosfer deals an axe crit to Yello, and after his shield takes it's final hit, Boosfer gets the final blow on Yello and is left to fight Dev any way he can. With another layer being destroyed, only the blocks below Boosfer's feet remain.
Boosfer knows there is only 1 way he can win. He picks up Yello's stick and hurls it towards Dev. It makes contact and launches him off. As he is falling, Boosfer's platform vanishes, leaving both of them falling. Boosfer swings at Dev midair to lower his health as much as possible, but doesn't account for the Totem in Dev's offhand. Dev pops it and gains the buffs. Boosfer, after doing everything he could, ends up actually winning.
When Kier fell, he shot more than 1 arrow. The void rising caused the arrows to never despawn. Dev landed on those arrows and dropped to half a heart. One tick of void damage was enough to kill him. Boosfer has won Color Clash! I'm never doing this again.

I've tried to make things work. Therapy, college, relationships, jobs. My kids have kept me hanging on, but no more. Trying to figure out a way to sneak off to the hills and no more. I'm tired, and done.

Anyone have advice on finding an apartment in either east Houston or midtown? I’m looking to get a 1 bed/ 1 bath under $1300 that’s close to the railways and in a safe place.
What’s y’all’s thoughts?

I wanted to share my current situation and seek some positive guidance without revealing too many personal details. I've faced a series of setbacks during my aviation journey, particularly in relation to checkride failures. Despite these challenges, I remain determined to overcome them and pursue my dream of becoming an airline pilot.
Aviation has always been a deep passion of mine, and I take great pride in being a dedicated professional in this field. I began my training in April 2018 and have accumulated a total of 1600 hours as a pilot, including various certifications and instructor ratings. While I've encountered four checkride failures in my record, I want to emphasize that I bear full responsibility for these outcomes. Each failure has taught me valuable lessons, which I now pass on to my own students to ensure they don't repeat the same mistakes. During my one regional interview so far, I explained my failures honestly and took ownership of them without blaming anyone else.
Now, let me briefly touch upon the circumstances surrounding these failures. I completed my training in the SF Bay area, an environment that, in my experience, sometimes exhibits elements of corruption and toxicity. Unfortunately, I became a victim of these circumstances. I must admit that, at the time, I wasn't as prepared as I should have been for those checkrides. Additionally, the instructor under whom I failed all four checkrides proved to be unreliable and uncommitted to my progress. He prioritized his personal gain over my success, neglecting ground instruction and even pressuring students to proceed to checkrides before they were ready. I regret not having the guidance and courage to leave that situation sooner.
Without going into too much detail, this instructor held considerable influence within the school, which resulted in tarnished reputations for students who spoke out against him or left his tutelage. I personally witnessed his manipulative behavior and even heard him threaten a former student who had moved on. Flight training can often leave students feeling trapped due to the significant investment of time and money, making it challenging to effect change. However, after my fourth failure, I finally found the courage to part ways with him. It turned out to be the best decision I ever made. I later completed my commercial multi rating in another state, which greatly boosted my confidence and provided a fantastic learning experience.
Among the failures, there were two instances that felt particularly unjust. In one case, during an instrument flight, I briefly descended below a step-down fix altitude on a non-precision approach. Although I promptly recognized and corrected my error, the Designated Pilot Examiner (DPE) decided to fail me, leaving me with a sense of injustice. Another failure occurred during a CFII oral exam, where the DPE's distracted state resulted in him abruptly dismissing the session without valid reasons. These incidents left me with the impression that the current system, with its lack of oversight, allows for potential abuse of power and financial motivations. While I acknowledge that these instances belong to the past, I can't help but feel that my subsequent interviews and job applications are impacted by these failures.
Due to these setbacks, I hesitated to pursue my Multi-Engine Instructor (MEI) rating, fearing that another failure would further hinder my prospects. However, I've taken significant steps to improve myself and ensure better preparedness moving forward. I've adjusted my study habits and made a commitment to never attempt a checkride if I or my students feel even the slightest bit unprepared.
Recently, I had an interview with Skywest for a First Officer position. I dedicated an entire month to preparation, and the interview itself went exceptionally well. The interviewer even commended my performance and praised my answers. However, a week later, I received a "thanks but no thanks" response without any explanation. I suspect that my four checkride failures might have played a role, but it's impossible to know for sure since they don't disclose the reasons for rejections. Unfortunately, I haven't received significant responses from other regional airlines either, apart from a couple of similar outcomes.
At present, I find myself feeling discouraged, especially considering I recently returned from paternal leave and my flight school's client base has dwindled, necessitating a search for a new CFI position. It's undoubtedly a challenging phase for me, but I remain hopeful that things will improve in due course.
I sincerely appreciate everyone who took the time to read my story. I'm genuinely seeking supportive and motivational advice as I navigate through this difficult period. Thank you.

Walkthrough: https://youtu.be/2JtBGEQOuaY
I made this video to show what the UPN Garden apartments look like. When I transferred, I didn’t get to see any images or videos on how UPN looked, so I hope this video helps incoming students who get placed here. Also sorry for the mess, this was taken post-graduation and right before move-out, so a little craziness was expected.
This is building 240 on Buckingham Way, Garden units. I was placed in a 3 bed, 1 bath unit with 4 other women, so 5 roommates in total! A little hectic at times, but we managed.
Things to note:

1. Only 2-pronged outlets! 3-pronged appliances will NOT fit. Please look into getting adapters, Amazon has a bunch: https://www.amazon.com/Converter-Polarized-JACKYLED-Appliances-Industrial/dp/B085QBFBKB/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=1NSEV44HCCT66&keywords=3+pronged+2+pronged+adapter&qid=1685570103&sprefix=3+pronged+2+pronged+a%2Caps%2C941&sr=8-2-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEzME5KWEFDUVM5ME9MJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMjU0MTk5M0RTR05HM1FQRk5VWSZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwMzc3OTMzMUdRWTBUMkFTNVE0OCZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=
2. Kitchen countertops easily stain and damage.
3. The bathroom ceiling bubbles up from leakage from the upper floors. This is common for UPN units altogether.
4. There are heaters in every room! To turn them off, pull the string and let it fall back into the heater. This shuts a flap so that hot air doesn’t get released. However, it still gets hot even if you do close it. I put a durable bag in front of the heater to try and cover the vent, but it still remains warm. There is no real way to stop the heat.
5. Consider privacy film for windows, people are nosy. We were on the bottom floor, so we had a lot of foot traffic and nosy people. Amazon has some options: https://www.amazon.com/Daytime-Privacy-Non-Adhesive-Decorative-Control/dp/B07FBZ7NML/ref=sr_1_6?crid=NWGHI8DRR3CT&keywords=window+tinted+film+for+home&qid=1685570419&sprefix=window+tinted+film+for+home%2Caps%2C310&sr=8-6
6. We had an ant problem when we first move in. I highly suggest getting ant spray or ant traps. The ant problem went away after 2 months into the fall semester
7. Close windows when it’s super windy outside. SFSU Housing will also suggest you close them so that the windows don’t snap off and get damaged.
8. The bathrooms are forever stained. The roommates and I are very clean people, so we would clean the bathroom every weekend, but it still looked dirty even though it was cleaned. The linoleum had dark spots that could not be cleaned by mopping or any product we used. We just tried to keep up with the cleaning schedule and cover it up with some big bathroom rugs to make it look presentable.

The UPN Gardens are not the worst, but the overall term to describe them would be “Janky.”
We never really had any big safety concerns either. We had some instances of homeless people sleeping on top of the carports and a really drunk student who passed out on the lobby floor, but nothing dangerous. Even if there was a problem, campus security was fast acting and could get to UPN quickly. We had one car stolen (from what I’ve heard) during the 2 semesters I was living at UPN. It was not one of my roommates, but one of the other residents in our building. They busted her driver's window out and stole it that way.
Transportation around UPN was wonderful! We had the 57 that went through the UPN area as well as the 29. M was only a 10-minute walk away. It was easy to take a bus or train to where ever you needed to go.
Feel free to add/share anything else I missed!

First time poster here. We (F&M 23) have been together for 7 years and engaged for 3 months. Two weeks ago, I glanced at his phone for a second and thought I saw Tinder. After much thought about whether it was worth bringing up or not, I later confronted him asking him to please show what the app was so I can have peace of mind. He got extremely defensive and said after all this time, I should trust him and believe that it wasn’t what I thought it was. My argument was that I have never asked this of him before and a simple show of his phone would put this all to rest.
This blew into a much larger fight around other problems we’ve had in the past, including him having Tinder at one point 3 years into our relationship, which I immediately forgave (which in hindsight was stupid). He said he had it for “10 minutes” to get validation from girls that he is objectively attractive through swiping. My best friend came across his account and sent it to me - i.e. I found out about it, he never confessed.
Two days after thinking I saw Tinder, I couldn’t shake the feeling that his abrupt defensiveness was fishy. So I did what I thought I’d never have to do - go on his phone without his permission. Once he fell asleep, I unlocked his phone and saw that where I had thought I’d seen Tinder, was now replaced with Twitch - so a red/pink icon with a white flame was now replaced with a purple icon with black letters. My heart sunk and I knew I needed to find more proof that I was right.
I searched for his app download history and behold, the truth. Tinder Plus and Gold subscriptions were paid for earlier that week. Various other random dating apps had also been downloaded, and Bumble premium paid for 3 weeks after our engagement. I screenshotted everything, sent them to my phone and drove to a friends house to spend the night.
Since then, I’ve confronted him with the evidence and his reasoning is that I “don’t give him enough words of validation or compliments”, so he did the same thing he did in 2019 and sought out swipe validation from strangers. He apparently never chatted with or met up with anyone, but I guess I’ll never really know. The bigger problem I see, is that he lied, gaslit and manipulated me in our argument the few days before. He never had any intention of me finding out and was clearly not mature enough to bring up his problems in open communication.
We are currently spending 6 weeks apart, sleeping at different places and going completely no contact. This is a vast change from living together the past 3 years and talking every single day since we met in high school. I’m hoping he uses this time to realise his flaws and work on himself, and I’m hoping I can learn how to be okay spending time by myself.
I thought I would feel more clear cut about whether I should break up with him or not, but I’m finding it extremely difficult to know what to do now. He is my first everything, we really are an amazing fit and get each other’s humour perfectly. I honestly can’t imagine myself being single and trying to date. We also have two cats we brought up together since they were babies, but are essentially his, so parting with them would be awful.
On the other hand, if this is what he resorted to in what is supposed to be one of the happiest parts of a relationship - engagement, what will happen in 8-10 years when marriage isn’t as exciting?
Can someone really change after a huge wake up call like this? Or should I cut my losses and hope there’s a better match for me out there as I’m still young? Any thoughts or opinions would be greatly appreciated.
TLDR: My partner of 7 years had Tinder on his phone to gauge his objective attraction from strangers and I found out the hard way

i (f18) don't think i am getting along with my mom (f40) . we've been used to be good in terms but since the last two years, it's feels like our relation is breaking apart. everytime we talk, we end up arguing. idk what gives her that idea that I'm "arguing".
I've grown up on a pretty bad environment. my father was alcoholic and abusive. my mom's life wasn't good either to start with. she didn't had a good childhood. but she used to cherish us a lot (me and my younger sibling) and she still do..but things has changed. around five years ago..my parents divorced and mom end up with someone else (my step dad). i never mind her choice. i was happy as long as she is. but somewhere inside..i just wanted her to work on her own rather then depending on someone else.
in the past year. i am having trouble with studies and mental health (i have anxiety) but my mom don't understand. everytime i talk about my mental health..she say "don't think about, don't be like you dad''. (my father had mania. idk his diagnosis but he used to say that he is maniac) . and for this reason, i can't go for therapy.
but lately.. everytime i talk to her about something (like, why I'm crying over studies) she say " what did i did about it? I'm disturbing you ..study as long as you want" or "what's my fault" she don't understand me..all she being is herself saying what my fault or what i did. and if i tell her it's not about it I'm saying cause you asked..we end up arguing and at last..she just say it her fault, everything is her fault.
idk how should I deal with that. i am frustrated enough to have a life i didn't wanted. I'm the older child..after my degree all responsibilities will be on me. yet I'm not ready enough. i don't know what to in life. and yet..she act like this. i can't even talk to her about how i feel.